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ADDRESSING INVITATIONS
Proper Forms of Address
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This table will guide you as to what goes on
outside and inside envelopes, and how to address Clergy, Elected Officials, Military,

Click here to read the following articles
Mailing without Cancellation Marks
How to sign a Greeting Card
Invitations with a single envelope
Computer  Addressing

What goes on the: OUTSIDE ENVELOPE INSIDE ENVELOPE
Married Couple
Children under 13
Mr. and Mrs. Michael Smith Mr. and Mrs. Smith 
Rachel and Alex
Married Couple
Children over 13
Mr. and Mrs. Michael Smith
(Children over 18 may receive a separate invitation)
Mr. and Mrs. Smith
Miss or Ms. Rachel Smith
Mr. Alex Smith

Brothers or Sisters 
at same address
Messrs. Alex and Stuart Smith 
Misses Rachel and Nancy Smith 
Ms. Rachel Smith and Ms. Nancy Smith
The Messrs. Smith 
The Misses Smith
Ms. Smith and Ms. Smith

Divorced Woman
Ms. Audrey Miller
Mrs. Audrey Miller
Ms. Audrey Smith (maiden name restored)
Ms. Miller 
Mrs. Audrey Miller
Ms. Smith

Widow or separated
Mrs. John Miller
Mrs. Audrey Miller
Ms. Audrey Miller  
Mrs. Miller 
Mrs. Miller
Ms. Miller 
Jr. or junior Mr. Steven Smith, Jr. 
or Mr. Steven Smith junior
Mr. Smith
II, III Mr. Steven Smith III Mr. Smith

Married couple
both Doctors
The Doctors Smith
Drs. Sherri and Steven Smith
Dr. Sherri Davis 
   and Dr. Steven Smith
The Doctors Smith
Dr. Davis and Dr. Smith
Wife only
has title
Dr. Sherri Smith
   and Mr. Steven Smith  (1,2)
Dr. Smith and Mr. Smith
Wife uses
maiden name
Ms. Sherri Davis
   and Mr. Steven Smith (1)
Ms. Davis and Mr. Smith

Two unmarrieds
living together
as a couple
Ms. Sherri Davis
Mr. Steven Smith

Mr. Michael Davis
Mr. Steven Smith

Ms. Davis
Mr. Smith

Mr. Davis
Mr. Smith

Single person
and Guest
Ms. Jamie Smith Ms. Smith and Guest

 
(1) Two different married names are written on one line separated by "and." 
If both names will not fit on one line, indent second line three spaces.
(2)  If Woman is listed first, use man's first and last name.

What if your invitation only has one envelope?

Computer Addressing
Computer Calligraphy
Mailing without cancellation marks
How to address a single envelope

 

ADDRESSING CLERGY

THE POPE His Holiness (name), Vatican City, Italy
(The Pope will send you a Papal Blessing)
CARDINAL His Eminence, Steven, Cardinal Smith
ARCHBISHOP (RC) The Most Reverend Steven Smith
BISHOP (PE) The Most Reverend Dr. and Mrs. Steven Smith
BISHOP (Methodist) The Reverend Steven Smith and Mrs. Smith
BISHOP (Mormon) Bishop and Mrs. Steven Smith
DEAN (PE) The Very Reverend and Mrs. Steven Smith
CANON (PE) The Reverend Canon and Mrs. Steven Smith
MONSIGNOR The Right Reverend Monsignor Steven Smith
PRIEST The Reverend Father Steven Smith
MINISTER (P) The Reverend Father Steven Smith
SISTER Sister Sherri Smith
BROTHER Brother Steven (or Brother Steven Smith)
RABBI Rabbi and Mrs. Steven Smith
RABBI (with Doctorate) Dr. (or Rabbi) and Mrs. Steven Smith
CANTOR Cantor and Mrs. Steven Smith
CHAPLAIN Chaplain and Mrs. Steven Smith
PROTESTANT 
CLERGY
The Reverend and Mrs. Steven Smith
(woman) The Reverend Sherri Smith and Mr. Steven Smith(2)
(with Doctorate) The Reverend Dr. and Mrs. Steven Smith

DID YOU KNOW?
...If you are using first names, the woman comes first and the man's first and last name stay together.
...If you are using titles, the person with the title is listed first.
...If only one of the two unmarried names lives at that address, that person is listed first.
...If one person is invited to the event and the other is their guest or escort, 
the person you know is listed first.
...If you are addressing two men or two women,
you might list names in alphabetical order.
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addressing THE PRESIDENT of the UNITED STATES

The President and Mrs. Smith
(woman) The President and Mr. Steven Smith  (2)
The White House, Washington, D.C.  20500
The White House will send you an official greeting.

Addressing ELECTED OFFICIALS
"The Honorable" may be used to address: Cabinet Members; Presidential Assistants; Ambassadors; Judges; All members of Congress; Heads, Assistant Heads and Commissioners of US Government Agencies; Governor and Lieutenant Governor; Secretary of State, Chief Justice and Attorney General of a State; State Treasurer; Comptroller, Auditor, State Representative; Assemblyman or Delegate; Mayor; Members of City Council; Commissioners; etc.
(example)
(woman) The Honorable Steven Smith and Mrs. Smith
The Honorable and Mrs. Steven Smith
The Honorable Sherri Smith and Mr. Steven Smith

You may also use a specific title:

Judge and Mrs. Stuart Smith
(woman) Senator Barbara Smith and Mr. Jack Smith  (2)

UNIVERSITY TITLES

President (or Chancellor) and Mrs. Steven Smith
Dr. and Mrs. Steven Smith
(woman) Dr. Sherri Smith and Mr. Steven Smith
Dean (or Dr.) and Mrs. Steven Smith
(woman) Dean (or Dr.) Sherri Smith and Mr. Steven Smith (2)

MILITARY TITLES
(title) Lieutenant and Mrs. Steven Smith
(woman) Lieutenant Sherri Smith and Mr. Steven Smith  (2)

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